Victor's world
A friend's point of view in his quest for information and action
that allow the best possible self-management of his life
that allow the best possible self-management of his life
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First text 04/25/2016
WORK AND ACCEPTANCE
Since a long time that these concepts choose to be the main players in my day to day ago. Accepting that I am like I am and my body deteriorates prematurely: horrible. Maybe I'm wrong, but acceptance sounds like surrender, something that some time ago that is not in my dictionary. Fulfilled my fifties, I look around and see many people, especially those who are around my age, stuck in a downward glide path, almost always unstoppable. Everyone has their personal history, forged basis of decisions taken and the random elements that happen. Willingness to always see these elements attributed to the responsibility of the state in which there is one. Both mentally and physically, we consider whether positive or negative, for me, these elements are opportunities to solve outstanding issues, or what is the same, live. Here, critics ego faithful they are happy to point it out as responsible for the misfortunes, but to me again, is one more way away from us the fault, or fate, of what happens to us. Accountability and consistency, without contradictions.
Working physically, mentally, I refuse to accept and surrender. I work at my pace, my speed, to slow down this deterioration. My mistakes and successes have brought me here and accept my present state untreated section "outstanding issues" that have a place in mind, I feel that bedevil my way.
Mind and body seem to carry their issues separately. Every day I have examples that are closely related. No one has always seem to blame for what happens to the other. What if I have clear is that the benefit, or harm, in one affects the other.
Whatever our state, learning is a constant throughout the life, whether what the input channel. We learn but do not put any interest, there is always some thing that catches our attention. In one phase, fifty years, in which scarce motivations and distractions that contribute nothing, learning is consolidated as a real option. In my case and because of this loss of physical abilities accelerated by a disease, I found learning in my body and therefore myself. Through the movement I remember who I am and I know myself better. That gives me physically and mentally, some security for the day and is a nice activity itself. Clarifying that progress and physical gains will not come, the process of learning and dialogue with the body itself becomes an activity in which I delight and enjoy.
The body is, along with our mind, the tool to develop, learn, live. Think about using one, cure, heal or improve our soul, is, in my opinion, half of us miss. Those of us who watch the vital has looked and has raised up his eyebrows in a gesture, suddenly, we had clearer than ever what are the priorities.
But this is only my wishes.
Since a long time that these concepts choose to be the main players in my day to day ago. Accepting that I am like I am and my body deteriorates prematurely: horrible. Maybe I'm wrong, but acceptance sounds like surrender, something that some time ago that is not in my dictionary. Fulfilled my fifties, I look around and see many people, especially those who are around my age, stuck in a downward glide path, almost always unstoppable. Everyone has their personal history, forged basis of decisions taken and the random elements that happen. Willingness to always see these elements attributed to the responsibility of the state in which there is one. Both mentally and physically, we consider whether positive or negative, for me, these elements are opportunities to solve outstanding issues, or what is the same, live. Here, critics ego faithful they are happy to point it out as responsible for the misfortunes, but to me again, is one more way away from us the fault, or fate, of what happens to us. Accountability and consistency, without contradictions.
Working physically, mentally, I refuse to accept and surrender. I work at my pace, my speed, to slow down this deterioration. My mistakes and successes have brought me here and accept my present state untreated section "outstanding issues" that have a place in mind, I feel that bedevil my way.
Mind and body seem to carry their issues separately. Every day I have examples that are closely related. No one has always seem to blame for what happens to the other. What if I have clear is that the benefit, or harm, in one affects the other.
Whatever our state, learning is a constant throughout the life, whether what the input channel. We learn but do not put any interest, there is always some thing that catches our attention. In one phase, fifty years, in which scarce motivations and distractions that contribute nothing, learning is consolidated as a real option. In my case and because of this loss of physical abilities accelerated by a disease, I found learning in my body and therefore myself. Through the movement I remember who I am and I know myself better. That gives me physically and mentally, some security for the day and is a nice activity itself. Clarifying that progress and physical gains will not come, the process of learning and dialogue with the body itself becomes an activity in which I delight and enjoy.
The body is, along with our mind, the tool to develop, learn, live. Think about using one, cure, heal or improve our soul, is, in my opinion, half of us miss. Those of us who watch the vital has looked and has raised up his eyebrows in a gesture, suddenly, we had clearer than ever what are the priorities.
But this is only my wishes.
